Parents - Why boarding?
|Boarding helps to develop:||
Boarders feel that they have a:
|• Confidence||• Great Social Life|
|• Community Spirit||• Enhanced Education|
|• Independence||• Close relationship with their family|
|• Social Skills||• Friends for life|
|• Cultural Awareness||• Greater access to school facilities|
|• Respect for others||• Good working relationship with teachers|
|• Self-motivation||• Wide variety of activities available|
|• A wide variety of interests|
There has never been a better time to become a boarder at a British boarding school. Standards in education and in pastoral care have probably never been higher.
Published examination results, league tables in national newspapers and Independent School Inspectorate reports, also published, confirm the high educational standards pupils achieve in these schools. Detailed inspection of boarding itself, and the welfare of children who are boarders, is now inspected by Ofsted. Reference to their reports reassures parents that their children will be safe and happy away from home.
So today's discriminating and demanding parents will find that schools match their expectations, aiming to provide the very best environment in which a child can grow and learn.
These days, the decision is not likely to belong to parents alone. Young people today are very likely to be central to this crucial decision. More and more, they are aware that a boarding education can offer them the best of both worlds - family at home and friends away - and are almost always prime movers in the final decisions which families make about the most appropriate school for them.
Indeed, this very involvement is one of the reasons a child is likely to be happy at boarding school - talking to young boarders, one often hears, ‘I saw three schools, and this was the one I liked best because. . .' and then you will hear as many reasons as you meet boarders. These young people are nothing if not individuals.
Part of the strength of the British boarding market, therefore, is the diversity of schools available: they may be small or large, co-ed or single sex, rural or urban, outstanding in different ways, such as sport or Music or Art, as well as in academic subjects. They may be near airports for ease of travel back to far-flung countries, or near the mountains, giving pupils more access to the great outdoors; in the middle of fine cities with all their facilities, or small country towns where the High Street is a safe and friendly resource for young people off site for a couple of hours.
Different boarding schools will cater for a wide variety of children. But what they will have in common is their care and concern for each individual child entrusted to them, and their dedication to ensuring that each child is happy, thrives and succeeds, whatever their interests or talents.
A HOME AWAY FROM HOME
Schools work hard to make the transition from home to school as smooth as possible. A seven year old is likely to find him or herself sharing a large bedroom with about half a dozen other youngsters, but having his or her own private space, with a wardrobe and locker and sometimes a built-in desk. The combination of private space - and inspectors are very keen to see that space personalised and reflecting the child as an individual - and company is important for helping children build friendships which may last a lifetime.
This companionship, coupled with a busy life outside the classroom as well as within it, and easy contact with parents, helps a child to weather the early days of missing home and begin to enjoy all that school life has to offer. Ask any boarder what has been the best thing about boarding, and they are likely to say, ‘Being with friends,' whatever their parents may think about academic excellence.
The international nature of boarding, with pupils coming from all over the world to take advantage of all that UK boarding has to offer, is another bonus. Children learn to understand different peoples and different cultures by making friends and living in a thriving community based on mutual respect, an excellent preparation for the increasingly international adult world.
Older children are likely to find the numbers in their bedrooms diminish, with perhaps two or three sharing up to the age of 16, and single study bedrooms - often with en suite facilities - rapidly becoming the norm for sixth form students preparing for university.
The older the students, the more likely they are to have established their friendships and the more likely it is that they will wish to spend more time studying: there may be fewer people in the room, but the desks will be larger, the shelves more laden.
Sixth form boarding is increasingly popular: parents are happy that their child is less dependent on home and family for a couple of years before the complete freedom of university, and are pleased that someone will be on duty to check that they don't work on their art project all night, at the expense of tomorrow's lessons, without getting into the kind of argument that can generate when it's Mum or Dad doing the nagging. Young people enjoy the ‘half-way house' between home and university too - they feel more independent, but good meals appear at regular intervals, and their room is not allowed to degenerate into quite the awful state common in student accommodation.
At all ages of boarding, schools offer comfortable, pleasant accommodation, with single study bedrooms frequently larger than those at university. Communal areas such as common rooms and, for older pupils, kitchens, are well equipped and have the advantage of staff supervision, ensuring that students learn to respect other users and the facilities at their disposal.
All of this will be overseen by friendly, professional, committed and dedicated Houseparents, for whom the happiness of the boarding house depends upon the happiness of individual boarders and the strength of the relationships they build with each other. Often, Houseparents become the most significant people in a child's boarding life - whatever the age of the child - and they take that privilege very seriously indeed.